Friday, August 5, 2011

How to Flirt With a Girl - Dating Advice For Men

For most kids, the art of flirting is alien and strange as the fine performance of an internal combustion engine are to most women.

Actually, to be fair, I have no idea how an engine works well - but that's another story ...

So - back to flirting.

The idea of ​​linking is to increase the sexual tension between you and the child from its initial meeting, all the way to have sex.

There is a sense of a "round trip" between the two - an escalation that both feel their interest levels rising and rising. If done right, both will feel a sense of anticipation and excitement grows as flirting back and forth.

Where most people go wrong is that a woman shows the slightest interest in them and they suddenly get all needy and declare your undying love for her. Either that, or acting outside and pretend that all those who have no interest in it at all (after silly standard community rules of seduction).

When a man declares his undying love immediately breaks all the tension has been rising. The question is on your mind "is what I like as much as I like it" no longer exists, so the emotion dissipates. You do not have to be dishonest with her, but you have to put all their cards on the table at once either.

Within this idea of ​​an increasing amount of sexual tension between me and the girl, who then has a number of frames (or modes of thinking) that is constantly applied during the conversation. Many of the funny comments that make it are around them. These frames are:

She has a dirty mind and is trying to corrupt me sweet and innocent little
I'm doing my best to keep my purity, but her sex appeal is what makes it hard for me to resist - I am just a man, after all
All women in general have a dirty mind and are trying to get into my pants

The second of the above is very powerful. Basically, you are telling her she is sexy and is teetering, and it has to stop immediately. You do not want to feel so attracted to her, but I can not help it - and if carried out, would not be able to stand just pounces on it (sometimes even explicitly say this).

Telling someone to stop doing something makes them want it even more - especially when it implies that it is taboo, bad or wrong.

And when combined with the fact that it is their broad appeal that is causing your reaction, you can see why this makes you want to reel in even more.

Without realizing it, then it is in the position of trying to chase, while you are trying to resist.

This is the opposite of the normal dynamic men and women gather. Usually, the man desperately trying to impress women with their accomplishments, expertise, money, humor, penis size, whatever to get to sleep with him.

Behaving in this way turns around - this is much more exciting for a woman. She is totally used to chase the kids, but she can not use to having to chase a man herself. That automatically puts you in the position of being the prize, that unlike almost every other guy who is trying to achieve with it.



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